Tuesday, December 28, 2010

I'm So Excited - Part 2

Some more reasons I'm excited heading into 2011...

We're growing! City on a Hill Church's growth has necessitated that we take over more space in the building where we rent. We're practically doubling our square feet in the near future.

The Dameron's are growing, too! In February, we will take our first steps in moving forward with adopting a child through foster care. Carrie, the girls and I couldn't be more excited for our family to grow!

We're going to give more to missions! COAHC has long been wanting to make missions a priority in our church. We've been praying and brainstorming about developing a business plan to launch a new business in our community that would give profits to missions work. I believe this will come to fruition in 2011.

Celebrate Recovery is coming! COAHC will launch a new ministry for our community called Celebrate Recovery, celebrating God's healing power in people with hurts, hangups and habits through 8 Recovery Principles.

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

I'm So Excited!

Instead of reminiscing about all the great things that have happened in 2010 (there have been a lot!), I want to spend some time sharing what I'm most excited about in the coming year:

Awake 21 - This is a 21-day period of prayer, fasting and personal devotion focused on drawing closer to God. It begins January 10 and ends on January 30. In every major move of God in the Bible, prayer and fasting were a component. I can't wait to see what God does!

Guatemala Missions Trip - City on a Hill Church is taking its first foreign missions trip to Guatemala in July. We're going to get a chance to minister to a lot of people in different ways. Most of the people coming on this trip from COAHC have never been on a missions trip before. This is going to be exciting!

Apocalypse - In January, I'll be preaching the toughest sermons I've ever preached. We're going to spend several weeks looking at the Biblical accounts of the End Times. Hold on to your seat!

Lots more tomorrow...

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Awakening

In January, City on a Hill Church will be joining hundreds of churches worldwide in a 21-day prayer and fasting season. Our church believes strongly in the power of prayer. To cultivate the culture of prayer in a larger way, we will encourage our church family to devote themselves to prayer and fasting January 10-30, 2011. Click here for more information.

The Value of Twitter

When I first heard about Twitter, I thought it was the most ridiculous idea I'd ever heard. "Who would be that interested in what someone is doing every minute of the day?" I asked. I imagined posts like, "Sitting on the couch, watching TV" and "Heading to the grocery store now." Who cares?

Little did I know the impact it would have on me! 1566 tweets later I've come to realize the incredible worth and value of Twitter in my life. I've been mentored (through tweets) by great Christian leaders like @AndyStanley, @RickWarren, @perrynoble, @MarkBatterson, @stevenfurtick, @chuckswindoll, @BethMooreLPM, @craiggroeschel, @DerwinLGray, @MattChandler74, @greglaurie, @edstetzer, @jonathanfalwell, @JohnCMaxwell, @MaxLucado, @PastorMark (Mark Driscoll) and about 150 other leaders who have great insights into the Church and our culture.

All day long, I receive mentoring, encouragement and ideas from those who have blazed the trail before me and those who are blazing the trail with me via messages that are 160 characters or less. Thank you Twitter!

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Life Groups

Imagine what it would be like to have a group of people who you loved and longed to be with as much as possible. Imagine being able to trust them with your most inner thoughts. Imagine that kind of relationship!

That's the kind of relationships that were shared in the early church. Luke wrote about it in the book of Acts.

They devoted themselves... to the fellowship... Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. Acts 2:42, 46-47 NIV

These relationships are fostered at City on a Hill Church today through our Life Groups. We're getting ready to launch our new season of Life Groups beginning this Sunday. We offer two open groups that meet weekly on Sundays and Thursday, respectively. They're open to anyone and everyone and provide free childcare.

We also have a women's Life Group that meets on Tuesdays (free childcare) and a men's Life Group that meets on Saturdays. Click here for more information.

Life Groups are important for two primary reasons. The first reason is that we, as the Body of Christ, need strengthening and encouragement from one another on a more consistent basis than just the few minutes before and after Sunday's worship service. God designed us for intimate fellowship with one another. That's what Life Groups provide! The second reason is that the genuine relationships that demonstrate love and care for one another are witnessed by others in the community and result in favor from those people (Acts 2:47).

Another inferred result of these close relationships is what we read in the last sentence of verse 47: And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. We can conclude two important truths from this. Firstly, God liked what He saw and blessed the church. Secondly, people were attracted to it and came to know Jesus as their Savior as a result.

I believe in Life Groups. It's an important part of our vision for City on a Hill Church. Please join one as we launch this next week!

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Money

Yesterday, I saw an article that reminded me of the poor job most churches do in communicating matters about money. Jesus talked more about money than He did heaven and hell combined. 15% of the quotes from Jesus captured in the Gospels are about money. So why shouldn't churches talk about money as much as Jesus did?

To be honest, I was convicted by this (again!) and have committed to doing a better job of talking about money and finances from the pulpit. No, I won't be preaching fire and brimstone sermons about tithing. While I will address tithing from a Scriptural perspective, I'll talk more about how the Bible tells us to handle our finances on a day to day basis.

Let's face it, practically all of us need this kind of guidance, especially in the economy in which we find ourselves.

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Making A Difference

"We haven't celebrated Christmas in two years."

That's what one woman told me as I listened to her story. Another one told of her son who is legally blind while another child has a rare form of cancer. These are all stories of families who City on a Hill Church have adopted in our Angels of Love ministry this Christmas.

I'm probably more excited about this ministry than any other we've done in our community since the launch of COAHC back in August 2008. We selected one low-income apartment complex with over 150 dwelling units in our community on which to focus our love this Christmas season. The ministry isn't original, but it is going to make a difference in many lives. We're simply providing our church family an opportunity to select ornaments from our Christmas tree that have on them details of children who need some help receiving Christmas gifts. The children will attend either our Christmas Eve service or our December 26th service to receive their gift.

Jesus' ministry was constantly addressing the physical and emotional needs of those around Him while ministering to their spiritual needs, too. That's what this is all about. We're expecting many lives to be transformed this Christmas!

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

What's In a Name?

What's in a name? In many cultures, names mean a great deal. They not only identify a person, but they also describe a person. Isaac means "laughter" (Sarah laughed at the thought of giving birth at such an old age), Moses means "draw out" (Moses was drawn out of the Nile by Pharoah's daughter), Jacob means "deceiver" (He deceived his brother Esau out of his birthright and blessing), and Jesus means "Jehovah saves."

We're kicking off the Christmas season this year with a sermon series on the names given to the Messiah by the prophet Isaiah.

For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Isaiah 9:6 NIV

Each one of these names are incredibly important when we realize the identity and role of Jesus in our lives. I encourage you to dwell and prayerfully consider each name in the next four weeks. Consider how these identifications and descriptions apply to the Savior and how He has impacted your life.

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Coming Attractions

Sometimes there are sermons that I get more excited about than others. That's pretty normal for pastors. For example, the series that we are currently in at City on a Hill Church entitled Climate Change is a series of three sermons that are so near to my heart because the content contains the vision for our church and the role we're to play in our community.

I've been researching and preparing for another series that I'll be kicking off in January 2011. It's a series that will focus on the Apocolypse - the End Times. Initially, the series was scheduled for four weeks. It's going to be very difficult to cover all the bases in just four weeks. We may need to go longer.

I've never taught on this subject before, but I honestly cannot wait to preach these messages. Most pastors avoid the topic of the Apocolypse because the content is so difficult to understand and there are so many interpretations of what the end times will look like. For me, I can't ever remember spending so many hours preparing for a sermon series. It's worth it, though!

So, here's to a preview of coming attractions...

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Fueling Up

Ministry has a way of draining every drop of energy you have. Elijah experienced it firsthand. But God has the solution...

All at once an angel touched him and said, "Get up and eat."... He ate and drank and then lay down again.
The angel of the Lord came back a second time and touched him and said, "Get up and eat, for the journey is too much for you." So he got up and ate and drank. Strengthened by that food, he traveled forty days and forty nights until he reached Horeb, the mountain of God.
1 Kings 19:5-8 NIV

When you read this story, you see that Elijah was so exhausted, he prayed for his own death. He expended spiritual energy in his encounter with the false prophets on Mt. Carmel. He expended physical energy by killing the false prophets and then running for his life from Jezebel. He expended emotional energy by worrying about his people and his own life.

Elijah was fed supernaturally. God not only provided the sustenance, He actually did the cooking, too! Elijah was so strengthened by God's food, he traveled another forty days and forty nights. In this passage, we get a glimpse of what God can do for us when we're run down and have given all we have to give.

The source of our strength isn't in a retreat in the mountains. The source of our strength isn't in a weekend at the beach. The source of our strength is in God's food that He has provided through His Word. You and I have a recommended daily allowance of God's Word that not only sustains us through the ups and downs of life, but also provides strength for those very difficult times.

The next time you need supernatural strength, get fueled up with some supernatural food - your daily Bread - God's Word!

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Say What?

Repeating our vision is something I never get tired of talking about to our church. It's a vision that was spoken to me by God's Holy Whisper before the church was launched. It was the reason why our family moved across the country to Culpeper. And it's the reason why our church has been so blessed over the last two-and-a-half years.

Last weekend, we kicked off a series entitled Climate Change that I preached our first three weekends back in August 2008. I preached them again as City on a Hill Church celebrated our first anniversary. Am I really that lost for material on which to preach? Not at all! As the spiritual leader of COAHC, I must continue to remind our people of why God has called us to be a local body in Culpeper and what we're supposed to be doing. I must continously cast our vision before our people so that we never lose track of the big picture for COAHC.

So why keep preaching the same messages over and over again? I read a great blog post today by pastor, author and church planter, Steven Furtick, that helps answer that question. In short, I can't preach the message enough!

This certainly won't be the last time COAHC hears how to influence the spiritual climate of a community!

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

The Main Thing

Being busy can either draw us closer to God or pull us away from Him. It's up to us!

I've had a lot of conversations lately with people who have a desire to grow in their relationship with the Lord, but who are letting their busy schedules stand in the way of discipleship. Work... Kids... Responsibilities... And, yes, even ministry... These are all commitments that overshadow our discipleship.

If there's one simple concept I remind myself of all the time, it's this:

Keep the main thing the main thing.

For me, the main thing is my relationship with Jesus Christ. That's it! My job, my family, everything else comes after my Lord. Guess what? That's exactly the way God designed it, too.

When we put Christ first in our calendars, something supernatural begins to happen. There is an increase in energy, creativity and efficiency to get done all the other things on our schedule. What's more is that there is peace about the things that can wait until tomorrow. Wouldn't it be nice to go to bed not worrying about what didn't get done today?

Let me encourage you this week to take a look at your calendar and make sure discipleship is included. Keep the main thing the main thing!

Thursday, October 28, 2010

A Big Deal

Learning about trust and community is a big deal to God!

According to Jewish tradition, the three central lessons the Hebrews learned during their journey in the desert are (1) trust God completely, (2) trust Moses completely, (3) be a unified community that cares for one another. The Scripture uses a plural pronoun to refer to the people as they wander in the wilderness, but a singular pronoun as they arrive in the land of promise. The Hebrews finally learned how to trust God and Moses and be a unified, caring community.

The same lessons are there for us today. The Lord wants us to not live on bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God. He also wants us to trust our leadership in the local church. Hmmm... Interesting. I think I could write a book about this issue from both sides of the fence. Nevertheless, God wants us to do it. So, are we or aren't we?

Being a unified, caring community is a nice Utopian thought. But can it really happen? It can with a little intention, swallowing of pride and other-centeredness. When we stop looking at the church from the perspective, "What can the church do for me?" and begin approaching it with the question, "What can I do for the church?" we'll be on the right track.

If it's a big deal to God, then it should be a big deal to us!

Monday, October 25, 2010

Help or Hinder

Nehemiah had vision! The vision God gave to him was rebuilding the wall of Jerusalem. Many times he was confronted with people and situations that would try and distract or prevent him from fulfilling his vision, but his response in Chapter 6, verse 3 gives us a hint at his focus and determination.

"I'm doing a great work. I cannot come down."

Have you ever noticed how often we're presented with opportunities while we're in the middle of accomplishing our God-given vision? They range from opportunities for new jobs, careers, relationships, churches and even new ministries. If these new opportunities help you accomplish your vision, say, "Yes!" If they hinder your ability to stay focused on your vision, simply say what Nehemiah did, "I'm doing a great work. I cannot come down."

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Vision

Vision isn't just eyesight. It's heart-sight!

God's personal will for my life is made known to me by the vision He has put into my heart. But... My heart is deceitful and deceptively wicked (Jeremiah 17:9), so I have to be careful about following my heart. How in the world can I be sure what is God's vision for me and what isn't?

My first step is becoming familiar enough with Scripture that I know if the vision lines up with God's moral will (the "do's and don'ts" of the Bible) and God's principles (the unchangeable truths that are stated, implied or illustrated in the words of the Bible). There are a lot of things we may want to do with our lives, but is the vision agreeable to God's Holy Word?

My second step is to ask the question, "Does it honor God or does it honor me?" God never calls us to do anything that doesn't honor Him above all others (including myself). The apostle Paul instructs us in 1 Corinthians 10:13, "So, whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God."

My last step in discerning God's vision for my life is to ensure that I'm not forsaking my God-given responsibilities for this new vision. In other words, God doesn't call me to something new that requires me to turn my back on what He has already called me to do. It doesn't mean that God doesn't bring new seasons of ministry in my life. It does mean that God won't give me a vision that requires me to neglect my duties as a father, husband or disciple of Christ.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Community

The book of Ephesians teaches us that the Church - the universal group of Christians - the Body of Christ. We can break that down a little further and understand that each local church is also the Body of Christ. Being a smaller representation of the universal group of believers, each local church consists of people with different gifts. Some are hands, some are feet, eyes, ears, etc. When we begin to acknowledge each local church as the Body of Christ, we can then begin to recognize the importance of community within each local church.

Understanding community is to say that we recognize the potential of each person within the Body. We're called to respond to one another's needs because when one person is in need, it affects the entire Body. We're called to rejoice with one another in times of triumph and mourn with one another in times of sorrow. Living in community with one another is an essential part of a Christian's life!

Friday, October 15, 2010

First Step

This week, we took our first step in the adoption process by contacting the authorities in Culpeper about bringing a new child into our home from foster care. We know that the details are going to be taken care of and that there is a child who has already been ordained by God to be a part of our family.

We are so excited about this next journey in our life adventure!

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Extraordinary in the Ordinary

Have you ever thought of yourself as someone who is too ordinary for God to use for extraordinary things? If so, you're not alone.

If we look at the Bible, though, we see God using ordinary things and ordinary people as His instruments to accomplish His providential will. He gave Moses a staff to perform miracles. God also gave him a piece of wood to throw in the well at Marah to sweeten the water. Jesus used mud and water from the Pool of Siloam to give sight to a blind man. God used an ordinary shepherd in Moses to free the Hebrews. Jesus chose ordinary fishermen in Andrew, James, John and Peter to be His disciples.

Why didn't God simply do these miracles without the use of ordinary objects? Why didn't Jesus simply speak to the blind man to heal him? Why did God choose ordinary people for such extraordinary things?

God has a beautiful way of showing the great potential in all of us. The potential rests in the supernatural power of God Himself who lives in us - not in our own abilities apart from God. When we realize that we, ordinary people, can be used by a supernatural God to accomplish extraordinary things, we see a glimpse of the depth and height of His marvelous love.

He has chosen you, yes you!

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Embarrassement

Last night at the Catalyst Conference, Francis Chan shared a recent experience that took him on an historical tour of many sites throughout Europe that had ties to the Church. One place he visited was a church that had "squint holes" in the exterior wall through which the lepers were forced to participate in worship services, standing in the outside weather. He toured another church that was built in front of a railroad that was used as a main railway for transporting Jews to concentration camps during World War II. As the railcars traveled by the church, the congregation could hear the screams of the doomed victims. In response, the Christians simply sang louder to drown out the screams.


Chan, accurately, pointed out that these examples in our Church history are embarrassing and don't line up with Scripture. His question was, "What is the Church doing that Christians 100 years from now will look back on and consider embarrassing and not congruent with Scripture?"


My most immediate reaction is that the culture of the American Church is embarrassing, specifically our indulgence and consumerism mentality. Our narcissistic approach to life has infected the Church and prevents us from obeying even the simplest of commandments from our Lord, much less the Great Commission.


I don't pretend to know what things will be like 100 years from now. They could very well be worse. I just know that I'm embarrassed for us now.

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Adoption

The Bible is full of verses that command us to care for orphans. If caring for orphans is a spiritual issue, why do Christians have to go to the internet for answers about adoption? The Church should be the place providing the necessary answers!



In the United States alone, there are over 120,000 foster children who are available for adoption. There are over 300,000 churches in our country right now. So, why is there even a need for a Foster Care system in place in our country?



As Christians, we've experienced adoption in our own lives. We were once orphans adopted into the family of God to be co-heirs with Christ Jesus. We should understand the value of adoption more than anyone else.



My wife, Carrie, and I are following through on this Biblical mandate by moving forward in the adoption process. City on a Hill Church will also be taking steps in the near future to work with specialized ministries to develop an orphan ministry in our church.



It's time for the Church to step up and respond to this urgent need in a greater way!

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Three Days Later

In Exodus, we read of the great miracles God does for His people as they wander through the desert on their way to the promised land. The Hebrews literally travel from miracle to miracle. Perhaps the greatest miracle they experienced was at the very beginning of their journey when God split apart the waters of the Red Sea and allowed them to cross on dry ground to escape from the charging Egyptians. The Hebrews celebrated after this great miracle and blessing from God (see Exodus 15:1-21).

Only three days later, the Hebrews grumbled against Moses (in reality, they were grumbling against God) because they could not find drinking water (see Exodus 15:22-24). Only three days after their great escape - the greatest miracle and the greatest blessing they had ever seen - they were willing to shake their fist at God!

If we're not careful, we can be a lot like the Hebrews. We can forget what God has done for us. We can forget the miracles He's done in our lives. We can forget the blessings He's given to us. Let's not forget that He's the One who has led us to where we are - not to forsake us, to forget about us or to leave us. He's led us to where we are so that we can trust in Him completely for everything instead of relying on ourselves.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Conflict

At City on a Hill Church, I've been preaching a series of messages on the Beatitudes found in chapter 5 of the Gospel of Matthew. This week, we come to verse 9 where Jesus tells us,

"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God."

The interesting thing we need to remember is that we're all going to encounter conflict. Conflict is not necessarily a bad thing in and of itself. In fact, a long-lasting relationship with anyone without conflict is probably not a healthy one. What we do with conflict is truly the important focal point.

The book of James helps us understand how to handle conflict. In the first three verses of chapter 4, we're reminded

What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don't they come from your desires that battle within you? You want something but don't get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

This really helps us understand that conflict arises many times out of unmet desires in our hearts. If someone does not meet that desire, we have a tendency to condemn that person and quarrel and fight to get our way. Those desires turn to demands. When we judge and punish those who get in our way, we've allowed conflict to turn into sin. In fact, when what we want becomes more important than loving others and maintaining peace and unity, our desires and demands have become idols.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

True Love

From where does true love come? Many people consider love to be a feeling or emotion that becomes present only at certain times. Other people say that love is a choice that we must make. There is some truth in both of those views.

In 1 John 4: 19, the apostle tells us, "We love because he first loved us."

Love is more than an emotion. It's not just the warm and fuzzy feeling you get when you see your spouse or children. Love is more than an intellect. It's not just making a decision to act a certain way even though you don't want to. Love is the evidence of God in our lives. Love is God, Himself!

If we have God living in us, then loving one another should be the easiest thing we ever do. Loving one another should be the thing we do the most.

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

God's Discipline

The purpose of discipline is not to punish for punishment's sake, but to correct one's attitude and behavior. Hebrews 12 makes it very clear that God discipline's his children. Why would He do this? Verse 6 reminds us that it is because of love God disciplines us.

I wonder how often we actually acknowledge God's discipline in our lives instead of dismissing it as something else. And I wonder how often we actually submit to God's discipline in our lives. We're told the results are beneficial.

... How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live!... but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. Hebrews 12:9-11 NIV

Usually, before we get to the place of an attitude adjustment, we go through all kinds of emotions. Sometimes we may feel hurt or rebellious. The hope is that we would feel Godly sorrow.

Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do not regret it. Though I did regret it - I see that my letter hurt you, but only for a little while - yet now I am happy, not because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led you to repentance. For you became sorrowful as God intended and so were not harmed in any way by us. Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.
2 Corinthians 7:8-10 NIV


Godly sorrow isn't sadness over the consequence of our actions. It's sorrow that reveals an acknowledgment of sin and a true change in heart - ie, repentance. That's the goal of discipline!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

God Can Change Me

I was talking with someone recently about her past. As she dug up old stories of things that had happened and decisions she had made, it became clear to me that I needed to remind her of 2 Corinthians 5:17:

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!

The same power that raised Jesus from the dead changes us when we accept Christ as our Lord and Savior. That's good news! We all have hurts, and we need to know that God loves us enough to change us and/or our situation in life.



Comments that don't include a first and last name of the author will not be published.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Anonymous Comments

I won't be publishing any more comments posted by "Anonymous" or pseudonyms that don't reveal a person's true identity. I encourage all to comment, but your boldness shouldn't be concealed. Let's face it, if you're too ashamed to post something with your identity attached to it, it probably shouldn't be published.

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Sermon Prep: What's Your Style

There have been several people who have had great influence in my walk with Christ. Perhaps the person who had the greatest influence was the man who took me under his wing when I was a mere baby Christian: Pastor Mike Quinn.

After moving to San Diego in 1997, I visited Canyon View Christian Fellowship in Tierrasanta on a Saturday evening my very first weekend in SoCal. It was a small church (about 130 people or so) that rented a Baptist Church for the venue. Over the next two years, Pastor Mike mentored me, modeled for me what the Christian walk should look like and gave me chances to explore leadership in ministry as I served on staff at the church. During this journey, Carrie and I met and got married while being a part of this church family.

Since then, God has blessed Canyon View Christian Fellowship tremendously, and today, it's known as Newbreak with multiple campuses and thousands of people all over San Diego County. Pastor Mike has been recognized as a leader within the Assemblies of God and by all sorts of churches around SoCal.

Today I stumbled across the video that Pastor Mike has shared with Church Leaders on the topic of sermon prep. For me, it's neat seeing Pastor Mike and Newbreak, knowing the whole story and knowing that I was a part of the story. Enjoy a look into the life of Newbreak's sermon prep.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Stumbling Blocks

A question that haunts those in Pentecostal circles is something worth examining...

Am I doing anything that could be a stumbling block to others?

I've had a lot of conversation lately about things that could be stumbling blocks. As Christians, we have been given a great deal of freedom through the grace of Jesus Christ. We know, however, that our freedom, can sometimes lead to questions, and eventually problems, for others who are seeking God.

The Apostle Paul addressed this very issue a number of times in Scripture:

Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother's way. Romans 14:13 NIV

Be careful, however, that the exercise of your freedom does not become a stumbling block to the weak. 1 Corinthians 8:9 NIV

We put no stumbling block in anyone's path, so that our ministry will not be discredited.
2 Corinthians 6:3 NIV

This issue becomes a valid question for Pentecostal churches who have a tendency to celebrate God's goodness in what some would consider extreme ways. Paul's conclusion found in his letter to the Church at Corinth should be something worth examining and applying into our lives as Christians - Pentecostal or not.

"Everything is permissible"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible"—but not everything is constructive. Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others... So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God— even as I try to please everybody in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved.
1 Corinthians 10:23-24, 31-33 NIV

Monday, August 23, 2010

Consistency in Leadership

Consistency is perhaps one of the most important traits in leadership. In church leadership, consistency is even more important - especially when it comes to understanding and living out Scripture. If leadership in a local church waivers and fluxes in the face of influence from man, it can, and, in most cases, will, lead to not only distrust, but also failure in effectiveness of that leadership.

Good leaders are people who have strong convictions. The most accurate evidence of conviction is transformation. Convictions come from what we believe. When it comes to Scripture, we need to know what we believe and why we believe it. The stronger our convictions are, the more consistent we'll speak, act and lead.

A church leader who chases whatever he thinks will fill more seats is not pursuing God's vision for that church, but instead, popularity. Staying steadfast to God's vision for the church maintains consistency and keeps a church healthy.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Weeding Grows the Garden

Weeding grows the garden.

If you've ever spent time in a garden, you'll realize that most of your energy is spent in weeding. Any gardener knows that weeds will always be present, so it's not if they appear - it's when they appear. A good gardener also has a plan to address the weed problem.

Of course, there are a number of different ways to weed. One may use chemicals. There's the old fashioned way of simply pulling the weeds up by their roots. Regardless of the method, the reality is that along with the weeds, some of the nearby plants get damaged as well. It's inevitable, but necessary for the overall health and growth of the garden.

In the Church, we're faced with weeds, and it's up to the overseers to serve as the gardeners. The longer we allow the weeds to be present, the more damage there will be when the weeds are removed. We never want to let the weeds remain, though, out of fear of damaging a few of the nearby plants. As overseers, it's our responsibility to protect the health of the entire garden.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Imagine

Imagine... That's what God calls us to do!

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. Ephesians 3:20-21 NIV

It's been a great first two years in the life of City on a Hill Church. We know, however, that this is only the beginning. We have dreams and vision that go far beyond anything we've hardly touched in our first two years.

I'd like to invite you to our annual Business Meeting on August 22 right after service. During this time, we'll, of course, go over some of the business aspects of our church. More importantly, we'll talk about the incredible things that God has done and the amazing vision that God has for our church. That means we'll be talking about what God is going to do in your life over the next year and beyond!

Monday, August 9, 2010

August

August is shaping up to be the best month City on a Hill Church has ever experienced! It's still Summer, and while most churches are expecting that typical decline in attendance over the Summer months, we've had a significant spike in growth. Yesterday was the largest service we've ever hosted.

To accommodate the growth, we're preparing to expand into another 3500 square feet of space in our building. It's the next step, but I suspect it won't be the last. Long term vision is utilizing a lot more than 9000 square feet for ministry in Culpeper.

One of the coolest stories for COAHC yet happened yesterday. A family from Nebraska is moving to the area in the next couple of months. They had time to visit a church while they are here, and guess which one they chose? What a blessing it is to have COAHC as their choice! I know the Lord moved mightily as well!

Several people gather together for prayer before the service each Sunday. We always pray for God to send who needs to be there. Last weekend, I prayed that God would send someone who lives across the street. And, sure enough, someone who lives across the street attended. This weekend I prayed that God would send someone from another church family who needed to hear the specific Word that would be preached. And, sure enough, God sent not just one person, but a whole group of people from other churches to visit us. Our God is One who not just hears our prayers, but answers them!

This month, we're celebrating our 2-year anniversary with a community BBQ, including games, music and moon bounce. That's on Sunday, August 15 right after service.

On August 13 and 28, we'll be providing free school supplies to 400 kids in our community. Can't wait to light up the faces of those families who will benefit.

Our staff is going on a Play & Pray Retreat on August 20-21 in Massanutten. It will be great to spend some relaxed time with those who have been working so hard at COAHC.

I'm loving August!

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Free School Supplies


We're giving away free school supplies!

On August 13 (6-8pm) and August 28 (9-11am), City on a Hill Church is giving away free school supplies to the community. We're anticipating being able to give supplies to 400 students in elementary, middle and high school. Please pass the word!

Here's the inventory that you see in the picture above:
1200 No. 2 pencils
150 blue ink pens
150 black ink pens
300 glue sticks
200 bottles of glue
270 packages of loose leaf paper
1700 three prong folders
1100 spiral bound notebooks
220 composition notebooks
100 packages of colored pencils
250 packages of 24-count crayons
160 bottles of hand sanitizer
200 pairs of scissors
200 packages of ruled index cards

Come on out and receive God's love in a practical way!

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Convictions

The most accurate evidence of conviction is transformation. We all claim we have convictions about certain things in life: taking care of our body, having a healthy marriage, being a good parent, being a good citizen, etc. For some of us, this ends up being a lot of talk.

Let's face it. If we have a real conviction about something, not only will our attitude change, but our behavior will change as well.

If I say I have a conviction about taking care of my body, then I won't just talk about dieting and exercise, I'll eat healthy and I'll exercise. If I say I have a conviction about my relationship with God, then my attitude, words and actions will reflect my desire to follow Christ.

Take an inventory of your convictions and assess which ones have resulted in transformation. This will help you assess which ones are real to you and which ones require more serious attention.

Friday, July 30, 2010

Marriage Retreat

Tomorrow Carrie and I are investing in our marriage in a big way. The two of us are going out of town for the day for a marriage retreat. It's not like other retreats where couples from all over join together to hear marriage counselors discuss details on how to improve your marriage. Nope, it's just the two of us!

We're going to proactively spend time discussing how we can enhance our relationship with one another and how we can be better parents to our children. As a pastor and pastor's wife, we not only have a large amount of responsibility on our shoulders, but we also deal with an incredible amount of spiritual warfare in our marriage and family. Why wait until crisis hits before we plan? Why not be proactive and have a game plan for when crisis hits? Why not have a strategy to accomplish, overcome and get through the everyday stuff that life throws at us as busy parents of three young children?

I'm looking forward to spending quality time with my wife, my life-partner. She's my best friend. She's an incredible inspiration to me in so many ways. It's a true joy to share my life with her!

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Finishing the Task

I was browsing the website of Finishing the Task this morning and came across this striking piece of information:

Today, 639 unengaged, unreached people groups with populations over 100,000, together numbering over 535,000,000 souls, are still beyond the reach of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. They are spiritually lost and helpless like sheep having no Shepherd. Among them Christ remains unknown, unacknowledged, and unadored.

It's hard for people like us, as Americans, to conceive of such a fact. There are people who have never even heard of a man named Jesus who was crucified 2000 years ago. These are people who have been forgotten by the rest of the world.

Our Lord told His disciples to proclaim the Good News in Jerusalem, Judea and Samaria and to the outer ends of the earth. For us today, that means sharing the Gospel with our local community, our region, our nation and the world.

Although there are some who are spiritually gifted as evangelists and missionaries, we can not turn our backs on the Great Commission that was issued to every single believer and follower of Christ. Regardless of how gifted we think we are in those particular areas, we all have been called to engage our community and the world as evangelists and missionaries.

At City on a Hill Church, we've expanded our mission work this past year from our community to children in Africa. In the next year, we're going to send people on our first mission trip overseas. We're also seeking the Lord's leading in a mission opportunity that could plant churches and orphanages all over the world.

There's a question in this for all of us. If there are that many people who haven't heard Jesus' name proclaimed, then what are you doing about it? You and I have as much responsibility to responding to the Great Commission as anyone else!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Second Saturday!

This Saturday, City on a Hill Church will be at the car wash next to Wal-Mart from 9am to 11am. We'll be paying the initial deposit for all manual car washes during this time.

Our Second Saturday events are sponsored by our Kindness Ministry which specializes in demonstrating God's love in practical ways. The people of COAHC believe that Christ ministered in practical ways and met the needs of His people. We strive to do the same.

Good Enough

I read a recent article by Rick Warren entitled "Why 'Good Enough' is Good Enough". It got me thinking about how serving is viewed in the Church. I agree with Rick's assertion that the local church can become performance based which can lead to a church that is immersed in entertaining its members and visitors.

In my estimation, there must be a balance between the truth found in Ecclesiastes 11:4 - If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done. (NLT) - and excellence. If we err on the side of excellence, the local church can be frozen in fear and shackled by the expectation of perfection. If we err on the other side of the spectrum, we can lose the excellence that God calls us to strive for in Colossians 3:23 - Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men (NIV).

For the Church, it comes down to this: we must demand the very best from ourselves. It's really that simple. Too many are serving half-heartedly with the comment, "Well, that's good enough."

In the context of sports, athletes use the phrase, "Don't leave anything on the field." Scripture uses athletics as an analogy for our life with Christ often for a reason. We can identify with athletics, but the principles in athletics are similar to our relationship with God. You and I need to make sure we haven't left anything on the field. We're called to particular ministries and we're called to give our very best effort.

Our salvation isn't performance-based, and it's not about measuring ourselves against one another. Our relationship with Christ simply calls us to take what we've been given and use it for the glory of God. We all must be satisfied with the best others offer. God is. Why shouldn't we be?

Prophecy for Pentecostals

This weekend while I was visiting some dear friends, I was given a copy of a prophecy that was written down during the great revival in Whales in 1910.

"In the last days, three things will occur in the large Pentecostal movements:

1 - There will be much emphasis on power at the expense of righteousness.

2 - There will be an exaggerated accentuation on praising a God to whom nobody prays any longer.

3 - There will be a strong emphasis on the gifts of the Spirit at the expense of the Lordship of Jesus Christ Himself!"

I ask you, could we be living in the last days?

Monday, July 5, 2010

The Wal-Mart Well

When it comes to ministry, it's important to know not only what to do, but when and where to do it as well.

In Jesus' day, the well was a gathering place. We're familiar with the story of the woman at the well, where Jesus had a miraculous encounter with a woman whose life was changed as a result. We don't have wells like that today. But we do have gathering places. Here in Culpeper, one example is Wal-Mart. It seems every time Carrie comes home from doing her weekly grocery shopping, she tells about seeing some friends.

One of City on a Hill Church's first organized Kindness Outreaches was a Dollar-Drop at Wal-Mart. Carrie, the girls and I walked around Wal-Mart and randomly and conspicuously dropped dollar bills on the floor of the store. Each bill was attached to a card that read

"This $1 is to give you just a little help today.
It's to show you God's love for you in a practical way."

We dropped fifty of those bills and cards all over the store.

Since then, we've used Wal-Mart as our venue to hand out carnations to ladies on Valentine's Day and host a wellness check in partnership with the Lion's Club. In fact, Wal-Mart has even awarded COAHC with small grants for the last two years to be used in our community.

Jesus engaged culture on their turf. Let's open our eyes to the opportunities that are around us. Let's get out of our church buildings, find those wells in our communities and engage our communities with the love of Christ.

Friday, July 2, 2010

Hearing From God

In honor of being in Culpeper and blogging for two years about the experience of planting City on a Hill Church, I've been re-posting some of my favorite posts from those first few weeks in 2008.


Hearing From God (July 23, 2008)

After being in Culpeper a month, my wife and I are still getting an opportunity to share our story of God's call on our life to move here from beautiful San Diego. Some people praise God for His call to build His kingdom in Culpeper. Still others listen with skeptical ears. It's the latter group that I'd like to address in this post.

It's interesting to me to watch the skeptics' reactions and hear the tone in their voice when we share our story and calling. I guess there are many people that believe God wouldn't choose ordinary people like us for a radical calling like this. Hmmm... I seem to recall a similar story when a man from Nazareth called some pretty ordinary people to do some extraordinary things about 2000 years ago. The fact is that God has chosen ordinary people to do extraordinary things from the beginning of time. Why do some folks seem to have such a difficulty with that concept? I have a few ideas, I suppose.

As for me, I'm fired up about what the Lord is doing. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that He's going to do amazing things in and through City On A Hill Church. In fact, He already has, and we haven't even officially launched yet!

So, what's the standard for success in this situation? Does COAHC have to have 200 members by 2010 in order for those doubters to say, "Okay, I was wrong. The Damerons' move to Culpeper was in response to an authentic call of God." Does COAHC have to have 20 converts and baptisms before 4Q2009? What's the standard that these people are using? And how does that compare to what God's standard is?

My family and I stand in agreement that the Father still speaks to His children. What kind of Father would He be if He didn't? He still uses people who are willing to submit their lives to Him. What kind of God would He be if He didn't?

We're not interested in putting God in a box. We don't put limits on what God's will is and whom He chooses to do it. We're blessed to be called by God. We're blessed to be in Culpeper doing His work for His glory! I wish everyone could have a taste of that kind of adventure... that kind of relationship with the Almighty... that kind of radical life change... that kind of success!

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Problems Just Don't Disappear on Their Own

The oil spill in the Gulf by the BP rig has become a conversation piece in most homes and watering holes around the country at this point. I don't claim to be the most educated person in the world on what's going on with this disaster, but it seems to me that it's taking an unusually long time for the source of the spill to be fixed.

This situation reminds me of how a lot of us have a tendency to ignore struggles and problems in our lives, hoping they'll either not get any worse or just go away all together. Sorry. Those things just don't happen.

If a problem is ignored, it only gets worse. Just look at the oil spill as an example. And I'm afraid what we've seen so far is only the tip of the iceberg of all the problems that will come our way ecologically and economically.

If you're facing a problem, the best solution is to get some help in dealing with it. Find someone who can give you mature, wise counsel. Find someone who can hold you accountable. Don't ignore it. Problems just don't disappear on their own.

Accepting Christ

The event I was most excited to report in 2008 was this...


Accepting Christ (July 23, 2008)

My oldest daughter, Abby Rae (5 yrs old), made a life-changing decision on her own this weekend. She told her mommy and me, "I accepted Jesus into my heart last night," very matter of factly. That was the best news I could have heard on a Saturday!

Abby Rae is fairly independent, so it was no surprise that her decision was made in the quietness of her own heart after we put her and her sisters to bed. I'm just reminded of how blessed we are to have children being raised in a Christian home who will know the Lord and know God's Word at an early age. They won't be shielded from life's issues, but they'll have God's strength in their lives to deal with them. That's more than what my wife and I had growing up! What a blessing!

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Lawn Mowing for the Lord

This was COAHC's first unofficial kindness ministry outreach!

Lawn Mowing for the Lord

Sound weird? I thought so, too... at first. I remember our realtor telling us when we first started looking at houses in Culpeper not to consider the neighborhood where we eventually bought our home. "Why?" I asked. She reminded me that with all the foreclosures, homes typically aren't maintained well and the pride of ownership can be lost in a neighborhood resulting in more downward spiraling property values. Certainly makes sense to me. Ultimately, we took our chances, moved into the neighborhood anyway. And I'm really glad we did!

Today will go down as one of the milestones for City on a Hill Church (COAHC). It was an "A-ha!" moment for me. What if I (and, perhaps soon, other people from COAHC) went around our communities and maintained lawns at foreclosed homes? The eyesore of 18 inch lawns disappearing somehow has an incredible effect on people. That's God's love getting relevant in people's lives. That's the fourth foundation of purpose for COAHC: serving our community in practical and relevant ways, demonstrating that God's love is abundant and He cares about the details of our lives.

I mowed the lawn of the house across the street from me today and two neighbors came out to bring me water and ice tea. What an opportunity for God's Light to shine! I look forward to seeing the fruit of this labor.

Monday, June 28, 2010

Surround Sound

Remember the old televisions and the portable tape player called "Walkman"?


Technology has advanced what seems like light years since then. One of the biggest advances is in the way we hear recordings. Back in the day, we used to listen to everything in "Mono" sound. It wasn't until the 1990's or so that we began to see a shift in practically everything going to "Stereo" sound. More recently, Stereo sound evolved into Surround Sound. Multiple speakers are set up around the listener in order for the audio to be heard with a 3-D effect.


I think most of us begin our relationship with God by hearing Him only in a Mono sound way. We hear Him only when we're praying or reading the Bible. As our relationship develops, we begin to hear Him in Stereo sound. Multiple sources provide the voice of God, speaking into our lives. I think most of us stop at that point. Our goal, of course, is to hear Him in Surround sound.


Jesus promised us that He would never leave us. We know that He desires to have a relationship with us. Isn't the foundation of a relationship communication? Therefore, we should be able to hear God's voice all around us anytime and anyplace. Let's set up our speakers and subwoofers so that God's voice becomes 3-D in our lives!

Logging On

It was two years ago that Carrie, the girls and I moved to Culpeper and began the process of planting City on a Hill Church. Upon our arrival, I created this blog in order to journal as well as encourage others in our community (and anywhere else, for that matter). In observance of two years in the 'Pep, I'm going to re-publish some of the first posts that appeared on The View.


Logging On (June 30, 2008)

OK, so here's my first post...

Carrie, the girls and I arrived in Culpeper on Father's Day (Sunday, June 16). We spent the first week "camping out" as we waited for our furniture to arrive. It finally showed up on the following Saturday.

Much has happened in our first two weeks here - too much to tell here. So, here's a quick recap:
-We love our home in Culpeper! It's perfect in so many ways!!
-We immediately started making our house into *our* home by purchasing some new furnishings, appliances, etc.
-Our second night here, we had a little impromptu block party in our front yard as several of our neighbors came over to introduce themselves. We live in a great neighborhood with wonderful people. The girls are excited because they have Dominic (3 yrs old) next door and Jase and Cove (2 yrs and 4 yrs) behind us.
-It's so nice that everything we need is no more than a 5 minute drive. No more freeway driving just to go to the grocery store!

We went to Hazel River Assembly of God Church yesterday. The girls had fun in the kids' church singing praise songs and learning about Sampson. Pastor Steve Dodson and I finally met after exchanging emails in March and April. His message was "God has you in the right place at the right time!" Boy! What a great first message for Carrie and I to hear after moving across the country. Just when we begin to feel those little doubts clawing their way into our minds, God confirms that the call on our lives to come to Culpeper is authentic and something great is going to come of this!!

I spent much of the morning touching base and scheduling coffee and lunch times with those folks in the community with whom I made contact prior to our move. God has put me in touch with some people that are really plugged into the scene here, so I'm confident that He will use these relationships. I'm excited to see what happens over the next few weeks.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

What We Want

A healthy relationship has tension. It can be tension of a variety of sorts, but usually in a marriage, the tension has something to do with relationship and work. Men are, by nature, goal-oriented and task-driven. We allow our job and success in that job to define our identity. Women, on the other hand, are more relationship-oriented.

Seventy percent of married women would rather endure financial struggles than a lack of closeness in their marriage. (Source: For Men Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn, Multnomah, 2006)

The tension that exists should propel men to meet the relational needs of their family and allow women to see the value of work, goals and tasks in a man's life. Healthy tension creates a give- and-take that involves communication and compromise that is other-centered.

Ladies, men want to provide for you and give you the world. Men, ladies would rather have you than anything else. Let the tension bring you together instead of drive you apart.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Hearing and Listening

Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. Deuteronomy 6:4-5 NIV

Let's face it. We hear a lot of things. But we only listen to some of it. When God spoke the passage in Deuteronomy known as The Shema to his people and Jesus echoed it again, the sentiment wasn't for us simply to hear him. There's an understood command within the opening phrase. In other words, God was saying "Understand and obey these things..."

The Jews were on to something when they began to implement phylacteries into their wardrobe and hang a mezuzah on their doorframes. What great reminders that we have a loving God who desires our love in return. Christians use paraphernalia like t-shirts, stickers and the occasional Scripture hanging on the refrigerator as reminders. But are these sufficient to remind us each and every day that we are to love our God with all of our heart, soul and strength? We need to be on our guard to protect ourselves and our home from the infiltration of the world and its values. Do we have the mechanisms in place to remind us of this danger? Or do we simply wait for something to happen, and then respond. Perhaps we should become a little more proactive in our approach than reactive. Perhaps we should spend a little more effort into understanding and obeying God's command of loving Him with everything that we are instead of simply hearing the command.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Reformation

Have you noticed? We're in the midst of a reformation.

Not unlike the reformation of the 16th century, the Church is changing dramatically as a result of this reformation. The face of evangelicalism is shifting from the image of Billy Graham to a mosaic of those who comprise the Church today: those whose voices we hear on the radio, the faces we see on TV. More importantly, the mosaic includes you and me.

The Church is shifting from a self-centered, consumer-driven corporation to a Christ-worshiping, other-centered, missional operation with purpose and fresh inspiration. It no longer solely depends on the person standing behind the pulpit on Sunday morning, but involves the hands and feet of those sitting in the chairs and pews. Christians are standing up and shouting, "Here am I, Lord. Send me!" The tradition and rituals of our local church heritage are no longer our identity, and our faith is being lived out where the rubber meets the road.

Legalism and pomp and circumstance are being destroyed by grace and the realization that we're all just a bunch of sinners in need of a Savior. It's no longer about what's on the surface. It's the transformation on the inside that matters the most. Church is taking on a new definition, or dare I say an old one. It's no longer a building with a steeple. It's a gathering of people who have proclaimed Jesus Christ as Savior, Redeemer, Lord and King.

We're in the midst of a reformation. Have you noticed?

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Be a Good Coach

For about ten years in Southern California, I coached high school cross-country and track and field. It was a thrill to coach teenagers in sports that I loved so passionately. Tom Landry's definition of coaching echoes the sentiments I learned during my coaching tenure: getting people to do things they don't want to do.

Let's face it. How many teenagers really want to go run ten miles on a hot summer morning instead of sleeping in? How many people really want to run hill repeats during the October Indian Summer heat of San Diego? The thing is, though, you can't get the victory without the work. No one wins the Championship without logging all the miles.

As parents, we face a similar battle. We're constantly coaching our kids - asking them to do things they don't really want to do. I'm not just talking about the chores around the house either. I'm talking about the important stuff: studying the Bible, carving out quality time for prayer in a busy life and serving others when it requires sacrifice.

It's not just parents, though, who face this challenge. It's any leader in any church, family or organization. There is a lot we can learn from good coaches. John Wooden, probably the best coach who ever lived, died recently. John is remembered at least as much for his approach to coaching people and the impact he had on so many as the victories he racked up during his days as the Wizard of Westwood.

Let's learn how to be good coaches. Let's learn how to motivate people to do the tough things that don't seem very fun at first glance. Let's remind those in our lives that we don't get the victory without the hard work.

Friday, June 11, 2010

Golf = Life With Christ

I played golf yesterday with a few friends. It's amazing what a difference slight adjustments can make. It's also incredible how significantly a lack of focus can impact how straight the ball goes.

Several times yesterday, I found myself trying to hit the ball out of awkward situations. My ball landed on the edge of the treeline one time and I had branches hanging down all around me. The branches distracted me, and I just couldn't focus on hitting the ball. Guess what happened! I hardly hit the ball at all, and it rolled about 15 feet in front of me. At least I was out of the woods!

Life with Christ is a lot like the golf game I played yesterday. Making adjustments and focus are very important in our lives.

When I take my eyes off of Christ and get distracted by life's ups and downs, I can really miss the sweet spot God wants for me. If I'm in the midst of a trial, God may want me to make an adjustment. If I don't, guess what... It takes a little longer to get to where I want to go.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Known For Something

What is your church known for in your community?

Every local congregation got its start (or should have, anyway) because God called a person or group of people together with a specific vision on how to reach people for Christ in that particular community. In other words, each and every church should have a niche in its community that is unique and specific to that particular group of believers doing ministry.

There are some who would start a church for the wrong reasons. Here are just a few wrong reasons to start a church:
-"There isn't any presence of our denomination in this community, so let's go plant a church there.
-"I need a job/steady income, so I'm going to plant a church in this community."
-"___ church is really successful in that community over there, and there's nothing like that here, so I'm going to plant that kind of church in this community."

First things first. Make sure the call is from God and not from your own personal desires for attention, prestige or greed. Make sure the vision for your church plant is the vision for your church plant, and not someone else's vision. Lastly, make sure your church is fulfilling a unique role in your community. We don't need churches on every corner just for the sake of having more churches.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Vision and Relationships

One of the important lessons I've learned in ministry is that vision may well attract people, but relationships are what keep people loyal. For some of us, especially those of us who have prophetic tendencies, vision can be so very important. The Lord can give us a vision that is nothing less than divinely inspired. Before we know it, our whole lives are consumed with fulfilling this vision.

New, fresh vision excites people and attracts support, encouragement and helping hands. There will be a time when that vision isn't so new and fresh anymore. Even though it remains a divinely inspired vision, people will get tired of fulfilling the vision because the work is probably hard, much perseverance is required and sacrifice is a big part of it. Let's face it. That triple play gets old after a while.

For those of us who are leading, relationships with our co-laborers have to be just as important as the vision itself. After all, aren't we dealing with people? From the beginning, we must invest ourselves into relationships. If the relationship is stable and fruitful, people are less likely to walk away from the vision. If the vision is the top priority and the only priority, it's only a matter of time before you'll be by yourself.

Monday, May 24, 2010

Koinonia Fellowship

They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Acts 2:42 NIV

Notice that the early Church considered some things of great importance: growing in their knowledge of God through learning from the apostles, prayer, observing the sacrament of communion and to fellowship. The Greek word used here for fellowship is koinonia. It refers to three very important components of life among the believers in the early Church: intimate fellowship, participation and sharing.

Koinonia means intimate fellowship. It means that you are a part of other lives and they are part of yours. In our culture, that simply means you have to spend time with people and invest in them. Believe it or not, I'm an introvert, and I understand how difficult that can be. However, I understand what God wants for me, and I make it a priority in my life over the busyness of my schedule and my comfort level.

Koinonia means participation in the body of the local church. If you're not serving in your local church, you need to find a way to participate. I've never heard of a church that doesn't have needs for servants to use their gifts and talents in a way to serve the body.

Finally, koinonia means sharing. In the early Church, Acts 2 tells us that they sold their possessions and gave as others had need. When was the last time you truly sacrificed an important resource for someone's need - time, energy, money?

As I said yesterday during the sermon, if you haven't invested yourself in at least 4 or 5 other people in your local church, you need to repent! And, no, it doesn't count if one family has that many members. We're talking 4 or 5 different people. That's what koinonia is all about.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Opportunities for Raising Money for Kindness

City on a Hill Church has created a couple of opportunities for anyone and everyone to help raise a few dollars for our Kindness Ministry. Through our Kindness Ministry, we conduct neighborhood outreaches as well as support local missionaries such as Young Life and The Pregnancy Centers of Virginia.

The first opportunity comes from the generosity of Chili's restaurant. On Monday, May 24, the Chili's restaurant in Culpeper will donate 10-20% of each food bill back to COAHC for all patrons who bring this flyer with them for lunch, dinner or dessert. This goes on all day long!


The second opportunity comes from GoodSearch - a Yahoo powered search engine that also offers online shopping. From May 19 at 12noon through May 21 at 12noon (Eastern), $1 will be donated to COAHC for every GoodSearch toolbar downloaded at a unique ISP address. Go here to download the toolbar.

Thanks to all who participate in these opportunities to raise funds for our Kindness Ministry - showing God's love in practical ways!!!

Friday, May 14, 2010

Megachurch vs. Smaller Church

Megachurches are so 80’s and 90’s! I think there is definitely a transition going on in America that seems to indicates churches are growing larger to smaller. People want/need to feel like they are more than just a number. They want to be connected to others in the church as well their leadership. Smaller churches afford this opportunity much more effectively than larger churches.

After reading this article, I'm even more convinced of this!

Here’s the thing though… Churches need to be careful not to be small just for smallness’ sake. The whole point of the Church is to grow – as that indicates more souls are being saved and lives transformed. However, as a church grows, we must be deliberate about sending and multiplying instead of selfishly holding on for stability and other reasons. I’m a true believer that if a person or church can do ministry in their own strength without relying on God’s provision and intercession, they’re missing out on what He wants. Regardless of size and maturity, people and churches need to pursue ministry that REQUIRES God to show up in miraculous ways to provide resources as well as accomplish the goal of that ministry.

Monday, May 10, 2010

Directions to COAHC Baptisms

See below for the Google Map that includes directions to Kelly's Ford from COAHC for our baptisms on May 23. Hope this helps!!

We'll also provide directions and a map to all of those in attendance at our Sunday service on the 23rd.



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Sunday Morning

This is a funny video that pokes some fun at what a lot of church services look like these days. There is much deliberate attempt to include many of these applications into services around the country. And, yes, even at City on a Hill Church, we are guilty of being purposeful with some of this stuff.

So laugh away and have fun poking fun at yourself and your local church! It's healthy to be able to laugh at yourself!!


"Sunday's Coming" Movie Trailer from North Point Media on Vimeo.

Friday, May 7, 2010

Second Saturday!

Tomorrow is Second Saturday!

Everyone is invited!!

Please join us tomorrow as our Kindness Ministry shares God's love in a practical way with our community. City on a Hill Church will be delivering marigold flats to our neighbors along Duke Street. Meet us at COAHC at 1pm to help prepare the flowers and we'll head out to the neighborhood by 2pm. We should be all done by 3 or 3:30.

Such a little investment. Such little requirement. Such a huge impact!

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

The Missional Church

The Missional Church is on the move. Churches around our country are beginning to understand more completely the call that God has given us in our own communities. Here's what this looks like:

The Missional Church from 30,000 feet-
Faith, by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. James 2:17 NIV

The Missional Church from 10,000 feet-
"Love your neighbor as you love yourself." Matthew 22:39 NIV

The Missional Church on the ground-
"For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me. They also will answer, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?' He will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.'" Matthew 25:42-45 NIV

When a church becomes missional, it merely recognizes that God is calling us to not only reach the lost in foreign lands, but to reach those who are lost, hurting and in need in our own communities. It's easy to get so concerned about those in Haiti or China or Africa and forget about the person living right across the street.

That's why every month, City on a Hill Church hosts Second Saturday! by going out into the community to show God's love in practical ways. We want our community to know that God loves them and that we, as the Body of Christ, are here for them. Join us Saturday, May 7 @ 1pm as we distribute marigolds to the homes along Duke Street (behind our church building).

Monday, April 26, 2010

Ministry Through Social Media

Can ministry occur through social media?

Blogs... that's so 7 years ago...

Myspace... that's so 5 years ago...

Facebook... that's so last year...

Twitter... now that's fresh!

Church leaders started with blogs about a decade ago or so. They used as it a way to journal and express their deepest sentiments about God, the Church and ministry in general. Community was found in comments left by the few select who would actually demonstrate their courage by leaving remarks about the blog entry.

Then came Myspace - an inventive way to connect with other people. Sadly, the enemy quickly saw his opportunity to prey on others and infect healthy community interaction.

Facebook was received as the new and improved social website where privacy and protection was upgraded. People developed friendships with old acquaintances from years ago as well as their neighbors. There was a safe, easy way for people to express themselves from behind their monitor. "Come get to know me," shouted the world. "But not too close, only through the distance of the internet."

And now there is Twitter. Community is expressed no longer by friends, but followers. Now, each and every one of us can be leaders! We can lead the world, limited only by profound messages expressed in 140 characters or less.

I have to confess, I've been a part of each and every one of these social media phenomenons. I value them as extensions of the ministry God is doing through me. There's a real danger, though. It's easy to get comfortable doing ministry from a distance - via the safety of the internet. We seem to be saying, "I want to get close to you, but not too close." I truly believe God has used these venues to speak to people and minister to them. Let's face it. I get mentored every day by the top leaders in the Church today, and they don't even know I exist! I connect with my followers by tweeting messages meant to encourage, challenge and lead people to the cross.

Community, connection, relationships, ministry.... Jesus modeled these concepts for us. While we can use all kinds of methods to begin these in our life, there's no substitute for being face-to-face. Let's use social media for God's glory, but let's not forget how and why He designed us - it wasn't to sit behind a computer hiding behind avatars and electrons. We're designed to be the ligaments and tendons, connecting the Body of Christ together through real, not virtual, relationships and community.

Introducing Joseph Moro


City on a Hill Church is sponsoring a child through Compassion International. His name is Joseph Moro. Joseph is four years old and is from Tanzania. Please pray for Joseph and his family. We would love to have all of our church family write him letters on a regular basis. Please simply email the church your letter to be included in our mailings to him. admin(at)cityonahillculpeper(d0t)com

Ministry to Orphans

James wastes no time getting real with his readers. I just love reading his letters to the twelve tribes. He's my kind of preacher. He doesn't tap dance around the issues, but hits them head-on.

The major theme of the book of James is "faith without works is dead." That's the overall point of his letter. James breaks this down a little further though and tells us

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says."
James 1:22 NIV


A few verses later, he tells us

Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.
James 1:27 NIV


James gives us the big picture, but he also gives us some specifics on what our walk with God should look like. Last week, the Lord began to stir in my heart and my wife's heart independently with the same vision for City on a Hill. This vision involves our church ministering to orphans.

We're excited about this vision and what God would do through COAHC. We'll be spending some considerable time praying about what this ministry looks like as we move forward. We're asking our entire church family to please join us in prayer as our leadership begins to follow God's leading in this opportunity to minister to those in need.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Exponential Conference Wrap-Up

A day after my attendance at the Exponential Conference, I’m still digesting everything I heard, saw and experienced for the last few days. It’s a lot to absorb, but this is what I liked and didn't like about the conference.

Top Things I Like From Exponential Conference
• “A church bldg was never meant to be the destination.” - Reggie McNeal

• Mosaix Church worship team leading the plenary group in the classic Doobie Brother's Long Train Running. "Without love..."

• Francis Chan’s message about why he stepped down from his pastoral role at his church in Simi Valley, CA. It completely wrecked me.

• “Apostles need prophets - prophetic intelligence for apostolic architecture.” - Alan Hirsch

• Sharing communion w/ thousands of other pastors/leaders. How inspiring!

• Hanging out with the guys from CMA Mid-Atlantic District.

• “We study the Great Commission, but how many disciples can we point to in our lives? Stop studying and start doing!” Francis Chan

• “If you're loving on a city without sharing the Gospel you're simply making them more comfortable on their way to hell.” - Matt Chandler

• RightNow’s mission: Are you a trader? Trade your dreams for faith in action.

• “Have you decided to follow Christ or did you invite Christ to follow you?” – Mark Batterson


Top Things I Didn’t Like About Exponential Conference
• Consumerism is still rampant in the Church – way too much marketing and promotions going on at this conference. I know it’s a conference, but can we please separate ourselves from the world just a little? Here we have thousands of church planters – many of whom are clueless about what decision to make next – and they’re being pummeled with offers to help their plant be successful. Every workshop promoted books authored by the presenters. Every time I walked through the crowded halls with vendor booths lining both sides, I felt God’s heart breaking. Has this what church planting training and preparation become - just a marketing opportunity for a book sale or contract with a coaching organization?

• One speaker would say one thing and the next speaker would contradict him. When you have dozens of presenters, you’re bound to get diverse opinions. I get that. The main issue I have is that the audience is a group of people who are planting churches (most of them for the first time ever). We’re looking for guidance. Many will leave this conference more confused than they were when they arrived.

• Some workshop presenters were much more interested in promoting their information than answering questions. Workshops by definition are supposed to include adequate time for Q and A. Many of the workshops I attended left only a few minutes at the end and were not able to field and answer the questions church planters had.

• There wasn’t enough emphasis on following God’s leading and too much emphasis on methods, models and coaching from other people who aren’t a part of your community or church plant. Transferable concepts are great, but there’s no substitute to following the prompting of the Holy Spirit. I just didn’t hear that spoken enough from the presenters.