Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Mockers Schmockers

“Whoever corrects a mocker invites insult;
whoever rebukes a wicked man incurs abuse.

Do not rebuke a mocker or he will hate you;

rebuke a wise man and he will love you.
Proverbs 9:7-8 NIV

I can remember a time in my life when I was looking for opportunities to correct people - especially those who mocked the Lord. Regardless of the situation, it always ended the same way: the person would laugh at me, ridicule me and mock the Lord and me even more still.

Reading this passage this morning, I was reminded how God warns us about trying to correct someone who isn't interested in being corrected. It ends badly. It ends with frustration and hurt. Nothing good comes from it. And yet, many of us still think to ourselves, "Well, I can set that person straight. What I have to say will make a difference to them."

Yea, right.

Why do we want so badly to waste our time with people who aren't interested in growing and learning from God while we neglect those who desire to grow and learn? As the Church, we need to do a much better job at discerning between those who need the Lord and those who want the Lord. All of us need the Lord, but far fewer really want Him.

"So we should ignore those in the world who don't know Christ and just focus on those inside the Church?"
Absolutely, unequivocally "NO!"

That flies in the face of our vision at City on a Hill Church and what I believe God has commanded the Church. What I am saying is that we need to not waste so much of our time on people who will suck the very life out of us without ever growing an inch in their relationship with Jesus. Too many are standing by asking for our attention and wanting our attention - those who will grow by leaps and bounds if we simply invest in them.

Lord, may we have the discernment to recognize those who desire to be more like You. May we invest ourselves in them. May we not waste our time trying to correct those who mock you in word and in deed. Amen!

Monday, February 8, 2010

Living Dangerously

This weekend was great. City on a Hill Church hosted its first service via teleconference and web conference. It wasn't exactly what we had planned or ever wanted to do; but out of necessity due to the weather, we gave our community an option to worship God and study God's Word via technology when most every church service was canceled in our region.

We wrapped up our Chase the Goose series with a sermon on breaking out of the cage of fear. The consistent theme over this six-week series has been living dangerously for God. As I watched the Superbowl last night, I could not help but see some parallels in the Saints' playcalling to what we've been talking about in our series.

The New Orleans Saints took risks and lived dangerously in the game last night. From going for it on fourth and goal to the onside kick, Sean Peyton led that team with a dangerous attitude that seemed to say, "Nothing's going to stop us!"

Some of the risks didn't always pan out the way the coach wanted. That's just like living dangerously for God. There are instances when our plans aren't fulfilled in that instance. But we don't give up. We don't get conservative. We don't play it safe. We keep on living dangerously and allowing God to work in and through us in miraculous ways.

I, for one, am happy to see the Saints win their first Superbowl. I'm even happier to see them win in the fashion they did. May we all live dangerously for God!

Sunday, February 7, 2010

A Different Kind of Sunday Service

Due to weather, our service this morning is being hosted via free web conference and free audio conference @ 11am.

Click here to register in advance for the web conference.

To dial into the audio portion, please call toll free 1-888-350-0075 and enter conference room # 4974494.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Sunday Service vs. Snow

This weekend, the two toughest teams in the NFL face off head-to-head for the Superbowl. In a similar battle for the ages, the wintry weather is squaring off against our local church services. Unfortunately, this is pretty much a one-sided battle. The snow's going to cancel most, if not all, services in the Culpeper area on Sunday morning for the third time this winter season.

City on a Hill Church is doing what it can to keep our local body connected with one another. When the normal routine doesn't work, think outside the box! We're considering the possibility of hosting church service over a web/telephone conference.

As a consultant in the pharmaceutical research industry, I utilize these meetings all the time for my job - at least monthly. People can hear one another over the telephone and those with internet access can also see slides or even video. It doesn't matter where you are. If you have access to a telephone line and/or internet connection, then you have access!

When you can use technology to bridge the gaps of distance between people, it helps tremendously. So, why not use it for the Church? I'm definitely not suggesting we use this technology on a regular basis as a substitute for meeting together live and in person; but when we can't get together due to weather, let's get creative and stay connected!

If the weather prevents us from meeting this weekend, expect an alternative like this to be offered. Check our website for details as we get closer to Sunday.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Staying Connected

With all this wintry weather that's beautiful to look at (but destructive to schedules, plans and driving), how in the world does a church family stay connected?

Our leadership team is brain storming and trying to come up with some creative ways to stay connected. With advanced technology, we can use video conferencing and the internet. The problem is that not everyone has web access. Another option would be teleconferencing.

How is your church body staying connected?

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Snow Days

Last weekend, we got hit with another snow storm. Most churches canceled services on Sunday. Fortunately, we were blessed with the flexibility to postpone our Sunday service a few hours, let the roads clear a bit and host our service in the afternoon. What a great service it was, too! We served a home-cooked meal afterward and had some great fellowship with our church family.

We're expecting more snow this week. I've heard that another major storm is supposed to hit us sometime this month. Who knows? God does!

Regardless, we'll do everything we can to open our doors and host service each and every weekend. We may have to be creative in our timing, but that's okay by me. Having said all of this, our church family's health and safety is of the utmost importance. We aren't going to endanger lives for the sake of having a service. Church isn't defined by our building and it isn't our Sunday service. Church is defined as you and me. Where 2 or more are gathered, there will He be in the midst. With today's technology, we can experience God's presence for a weekend over the internet or television. Of course, we can't forsake gathering together, but a weekend here and there isn't going to do damage to anyone's spiritual life.

Let's commit to continue praying for one another and look savor each and every opportunity to gather together in fellowship and worship of our Lord Jesus Christ!

Friday, January 29, 2010

2010 Challenge

This marks the end of postings for the 2010 Challenge. Hopefully each and every one of you who have been using this blog as a blueprint for your devo life have formed a healthy habit of reading God's Word in your life. I pray that you will continue spending time in His Word and soak in God's Truth for our lives.

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 21
Proverbs 23
Psalm 23
Genesis 21

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Thursday, January 28, 2010

New Season

God is ushering in a new season for City on a Hill Church. It's always exciting when God does a new thing.

Yesterday marked an important day for us. We had our first leadership meeting in which the leaders were exclusively people who are a part of our local church family. When COAHC first started, our Board of Overseers was comprised of men from different parts of the country with whom I had worked previously. They were all pastors or former pastors. The difficulty in this was that none had ever been to Culpeper and none were part of our local body.

It's taken a year and a half, but we finally put together a team of people who are mature Christians and who are capable of overseeing the leadership of our church. This group of people are devoted to seeing God's vision fulfilled for COAHC. It's an exciting time to be a part of COAHC!

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 20
Proverbs 22
Psalm 22
Genesis 20

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 19
Proverbs 21
Psalm 21
Genesis 19

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 18
Proverbs 20
Psalm 20
Genesis 18

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Monday, January 25, 2010

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 17
Proverbs 19
Psalm 19
Genesis 17

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Warming Shelter

Last night, we had 13 guests stay overnight at the warming shelter. Each and every one of them are beautiful people with their own stories. I'm glad that only two or three are "carry-overs" from last year. Most of the folks from last year have either moved on or been able to find their own housing. I do hope that trend continues in Culpeper.

Each evening, we are able to share a devotional with those who want to participate. Over the last week, our devotionals have centered on some great, relevant topics for these folks: facing your fears; finding identity in Christ; trusting God; why bad things happen to good people; and understanding God's discipline.

As a result, more and more of our guests have been participating in the evening devotions and more are becoming curious about a relationship with God. At least one or two who aren't a part of a church want to come to City on a Hill Church on Sunday.

This is what I call complete ministry: meeting practical needs as well as leading them deeper into a relationship with Christ. I pray that complete ministry continues each and every week at the shelter.

Comments

I love when people leave comments for my posts, but I do have the ability to publish or reject them before they appear to the public. I won't publish any comments that have obscenity in them as some of the more recent comments submitted have included.

If you're interested in leaving comments on my posts about pornography, please feel free to do so. Please feel free to share your heart in an intelligent, thoughtful way. I will publish all comments that are sincere and don't include obscenity. I believe in healthy debate as that's one way people learn.

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 16
Proverbs 18
Psalm 18
Genesis 16

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Christians Misuse Statistics

There is a great article in this month's Christianity Today about how Evangelical Christians have misused statistics and survey results - sometimes maliciously and other times simply in error. As I read the article, I discovered that some of the information I believed was true was, in fact, not. It goes to show that it's important we all do our homework and not just believe what someone else says...


Curing Christians' Stats Abuse
The statistics we most love to repeat may be leading us to make bad choices about the church.

The reporter's question was one of the best I had ever been asked. "Why do you evangelicals love to make up and say such bad things about yourselves?"

Great question, I thought. But I'm here to talk about social science research, not abnormal psychology.

I was facing a room full of reporters in a Religion Newswriters Association session at the Washington Post building in D.C. They had invited me to explain the difference between good religious research and bad. It's a real problem. News reports are always batting around some new bit of bad research. And sometimes a snippet from good research gets pulled out of context, then mangled, garbled, and spewed all over.

Research Gone Wild

Once a choice morsel of misinformation gets out, it multiplies faster than dandelions in the spring. We have all heard these soul-seizing yet false factoids. Some of us have even repeated them:

"Christianity will die out in this generation unless we do something now."

"Only 4 percent of this generation is Christian."

"Ninety-four percent of teenagers drop out of church, never to return again."

And perhaps my favorite: "With its 195 million unchurched people, America has become the new mission field. America has more unchurched people than the entire populations of all but 11 of the world's 194 nations." The "195 million unchurched people" statistic is all over the place—from books to blogs to church bulletins. And those who quote it often attribute it to researcher George Barna.

The problem is, it isn't true. That's not what the research showed, and Barna wasn't the one who conducted the study.

The original stat came out of a project I was a part of while working with the Southern Baptist Convention's North American Mission Board (NAMB). We researched the number of unbelievers in the U.S., not the number of unchurched people. But someone somewhere changed the language, and thus the meaning.

Three years ago, Christianity Today sister magazine Books & Culture carried a provocative article by Christian Smith entitled, "Evangelicals Behaving Badly with Statistics." Smith, a highly respected professor of sociology at the University of Notre Dame, declared that American evangelicals "are among the worst abusers of simple descriptive statistics."

He went on to dissect an advertisement for a summit that declared, "Christianity in America won't survive another decade unless we do something now." The summit organizers claimed that only 4 percent of today's teenagers would be evangelical believers by the time they became adults. "We are on the verge of a catastrophe!" the advertisement screamed.

As it turns out, that 4 percent statistic comes from an informal survey of 211 young people in three states conducted by a seminary professor nine years earlier. Smith affirmed the professor's approach but explained that an unwarranted inference was drawn from a small, non-representative sample to reach conclusions about the future faith conditions of entire generations.

Smith wrote, "Why do evangelicals recurrently abuse statistics? My observation is that they are usually trying desperately to attract attention and raise people's concern in order to mobilize resources and action for some cause …. Evangelical leaders and organizations routinely use descriptive statistics in sloppy, unwarranted, misrepresenting, and sometimes absolutely preposterous ways, usually to get attention and sound alarms, at least some of which are false alarms."

My friends at NAMB and my boss, Thom Rainer (the originator of the 4 percent statistic), accurately reported their methods and conclusions. But the research took on a life of its own. Unfortunately, good people who are trying to help the church change its bad habits in order to reach a lost world often misappropriate the research. Evangelical Christianity in the U.S. undoubtedly faces serious challenges, but hyperventilating doesn't help—even when the statistics are accurate. Crying, "The sky is falling!" might sell books, but it never fixes problems.

I suspect that we are attracted to bad statistics mostly for motivation. We need a personal push and hope to give one to our churches as well. But bad stats can feed self-loathing and lethargy as much as they can encourage steadfastness in mission.

We will Always have the ARIS

Another way we misrepresent the state of American Christianity is by seizing upon one startling aspect of a study and pulling it out of context, sometimes ignoring other findings in the study. This happened with the American Religious Identification Survey (ARIS), released in March 2009. It found a significant decline in religion and a rise in secularism that set news outlets buzzing.

"The percentage of Americans who call themselves Christians has dropped dramatically over the past two decades, and those who do are increasingly identifying themselves without traditional denomination labels," wrote Michelle Boorstein of Washington Post. Cathy Lynn Grossman at USA Today reported, "The percentage of people who call themselves in some way Christian has dropped more than 11 percent in a generation. The faithful have scattered out of their traditional bases: The Bible Belt is less Baptist. The Rust Belt is less Catholic. And everywhere, more people are exploring spiritual frontiers—or falling off the faith map completely."

The ARIS correctly observed that denominations and denominationalism are in decline, the cultural influence of Christianity continues to slip, more people are describing themselves as nonreligious (now 15 percent), and minority religions like Islam and Wicca are becoming more popular.

Some observers also latched onto the ARIS, finding that nonreligious Americans have dramatically increased in number, and concluded that evangelical Christianity in the U.S. is on the verge of annihilation. But the ARIS finding was only half the equation.

The ARIS also reveals a simultaneous increase in the number of Americans who self-identify as evangelical Christians. There is a lot in the ARIS that should be disturbing to the church, but the decline in the percentage of self-identified Christians that the ARIS found falls far short of a great crackup in evangelicalism.

What does the Good Research say?

One of the first things you learn in research is that there are many ways to look at things. Every time we have new data from a well-designed study, it helps us. But one conclusion from one study is no foundation for a theory on the future of a society.

To get the whole picture, responsible researchers look at various studies, their methodologies, and their results. We must understand the parts in light of the whole. We should interpret each finding in light of the full study, and interpret each study in light of other studies. We reach bad conclusions when we latch onto one finding of one study, drag it out of context, and proclaim it from the rooftops without knowing whether our interpretation is justified.

The ARIS: Perhaps its most interesting finding was the stunning decline of Catholicism in the Northeast. In addition to that trend, 15 percent of Americans claimed no religion at all. The growth that did occur in the Christian population was among those who would identify only as "Christian," "evangelical/born again," or "nondenominational Christian." These groups, 5 percent of the population in 1990, stood at 11.8 percent in 2008.

General Social Survey (GSS): One relevant aspect of the GSS (conducted every other year since 1972) is the snapshot it provides about worship service attendance. My book Lost and Found included a 1972-2006 GSS chart that showed that the percentage of 20-somethings attending weekly worship services has been rising since 2000, after a serious dip in the mid-1990s. My co-authors and I admitted that only time would tell if the rising trajectory would continue. Since then, the 2008 data showed another uptick, bringing attendance among evangelical 20-somethings back to what it was in 1972. Among non-evangelicals there was indeed a decline: Just fewer than 25 percent attended weekly in 1972. In 2008, it was just over 12 percent. Listening to some commentators, you might conclude that young adults had left the church. But that is not what the data tell us.

Gallup: In April 2009, Gallup reported that church attendance among Protestant young adults rebounded in the 1980s and is now close to the level it was in the 1950s. Of course, "Protestant" covers a wide range of denominations, some of which have experienced high membership growth, others of which have declined. Gallup generally hasn't shown any change in reported church attendance, much less a massive decline among 20-somethings.

To be fair, these numbers are likely influenced by the "halo effect," where people are more likely to say they go to church than to actually go. People always inflate reports of behaviors when they perceive that the behavior in question is desirable. It's significant, though, that the numbers on weekly church attendance haven't changed substantially. If Christianity were in steep decline, the social desirability of it would be, too—which would reduce the halo effect.

Baylor Religion Survey: The 2007 Baylor Religion Survey, reported in Rodney Stark's book What Americans Really Believe (2008), found that, of the 11 percent of Americans who said they had "no religion," two-thirds expressed some belief in God. In addition, many were not "irreligious" but merely "unchurched." More to the point, the study found that people do not use activities of the "scattered" church—religious activities not affiliated with or sponsored by a congregation—as a substitute for participation in the "gathered" church.

The study exposed as a myth a widespread dissatisfaction with organized religion. Of those who are engaged in "scattered" activities, such as prayer and Bible study groups, 80 percent frequently attend church. While many Americans are disillusioned with organized religion, theirs is by no means the prevailing attitude. Organized churches face serious issues, but the facts simply do not support the mantra that churches are dying out.

Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life: A 2008 study conducted by the Pew Forum found that 40 percent of religiously unaffiliated people say religion is still important in their lives. Further, the research found that the "unaffiliated" group does a lousy job of retaining adherents. Pew found that 39 percent of those who grew up unaffiliated are now Protestant, most of them evangelical, while another 15 percent now affiliate with Catholicism or another faith. Though we hear a great deal about young people leaving the church, we hear few reports about the stream of young people coming into the church.

What are the Concerns?

It's hard to generalize about American Christianity. The scene is just too diverse. But the most reputable studies give us certain indicators about particular denominations and the spiritual lives of U.S. adults. Mainline denominations are no longer bleeding; they are hemorrhaging. Increasingly, they are simply managing their decline. For evangelicals, the picture is better, but only in comparison to the mainline churches. Southern Baptists, composing the largest Protestant denomination in the U.S., have apparently peaked and are trending toward decline. The same is true of most evangelical denominations. Only 2 of the top 25 Christian denominations are growing: the Assemblies of God and the Church of God (Cleveland, Tennessee). Both are Pentecostal.

Still, those worried about church decline are worried about data beyond the simple "more" or "less" numbers. The bigger concern is that people who identify themselves as Christians (and even evangelicals) do not evidence the beliefs historically held by Christians.

The Shape of Faith to Come, a 2008 book by Brad Waggoner (and based on a LifeWay Research study), evaluated seven domains of spiritual formation: learning truth, obeying God and denying self, serving God and others, sharing Christ, exercising faith, seeking God, and building relationships. It found that only 17 percent of Protestant churchgoers in America scored the equivalent of 80 percent or higher in those key areas of Christian discipleship. A full 57 percent of respondents said they had not once explained to another person in the past six months how to become a Christian. Then, over the course of the next year, only 3.5 percent showed a net increase in spiritual growth. These data are cause for concern, for sure. The church cannot grow if Christians are not actively discipling new believers.

American Christianity is not Dead

Reports of Christianity's demise in America have been greatly exaggerated. While the main thrust of good research does indicate that the percentage of Americans who self-identify as Christians is declining, these data are not necessarily a bad thing. If three out of four Americans call themselves Christians, we are in big trouble. Three out of four Americans certainly do not live like Christians. Christianity becomes confused when everyone is a Christian but no one is following Christ. We evangelicals believe that most Americans do not have a relationship with Jesus Christ.

There is little doubt in my mind that the cultural expression of Christianity in America is declining. True, Christianity is losing its "home-field advantage" in North America. At the same time, some trends tell us we are seeing the growth of a more robust Christian faith and commitment. We are seeing some abandon nominal Christianity, and many others retain an authentic Christian faith. Christianity in North America is not going to die out in this generation or any other, even though it is going through an identity crisis of sorts.

In the meantime, bad and misinterpreted data must not convince us that organized Christianity in America is dead and gone. Facts are our friends. The facts tell us that the church in North America is struggling but also, in many places, growing. Discerning research can help us diagnose our condition. It may even help the church find strategic means to address the mission field right outside our doors. And ultimately, we all can agree that a declining church needs the unchanging gospel.

Ed Stetzer is president of LifeWay Research and co-author of Lost and Found: The Younger Unchurched and the Churches That Reach Them (Broadman and Holman).


Friday, January 22, 2010

Can't We All Just Get Along?

Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.
Proverbs 17:14 NIV

I've known a few people in my lifetime who thrive on conflict. Being around them isn't very fun. Both the Old Testament and the New Testament teach us about the importance and blessings of peace. Jesus told us, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God." Quarreling has never resolved an issue in the history of the world, yet we all fall into it from time to time.

So what should I do when someone is doing something incorrectly or someone has wronged me?

The Bible certainly teaches us the importance of accountability, discipline and rebuking. It really boils down to the way you handle the situation. I confess that I'm not perfect in this, but I really try to make this a priority in my life. We need to be able to confront someone in love without allowing our emotions to get in the way - doing it with gentleness and respect. Oh boy, that's convicting for me. I'm not always the most gentle person in the world. Sometimes I'm more of a bull in a china closet. Just ask my wife!

The other issue is knowing which issues are important enough to address. The truth is that there are just some things that aren't that important. We need to know when to confront and when to simply let go. One important lesson I've learned through ministry is to allow the Holy Spirit to do His job. It's not my job to convict someone of their sin. That's the role of the Holy Spirit. Sometimes it's just better to be still and pray.

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 15
Proverbs 17
Psalm 17
Genesis 15

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Thursday, January 21, 2010

No Alternative Routes to Heaven

I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going." John 14:2b-4 NIV


What a comforting thought! Jesus is preparing a place in heaven for us. The Lord who knows the number of hairs on our head, who knows every thought we have, who knows us better than we know ourselves is preparing our own unique place in heaven just for us.

Not only that. He's coming back to get us. The omnipresent Lord, God Almighty is giving us a personal escort to that special place so we can worship Him forever and ever.

In verse 4, Jesus reminds us that we already know the way to the place. He's the way! It's only through a relationship with Him, that we come to know the Father in intimacy. There are no options on routes to the final destination of heaven. Our GPS can't give us options of quickest time and shortest route. In heavenly terms, they're one and the same!

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 14
Proverbs 16
Psalm 16
Genesis 14

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Culpeper Warming Shelter

This week, City on a Hill Church is overseeing the Culpeper Warming Shelter. This is a ministry that gives an opportunity for those who don't have a home or who can't afford to heat their home to spend time in a warm, dry and safe environment each evening. This week, we've had as few as six and as many as eleven guests.

We feed them dinner, make them a continental breakfast and provide them with everything to make a brown-bag lunch to take with them during the day. Each evening, things kick off at 6pm and the guests leave by 7am the following morning.

One of the greatest components to this ministry is that we not only get to meet a practical need of theirs, but we also get to share the Gospel and teach the Word of God with them. We spend about 20 minutes sharing a devotional each and every evening with the guests. We've had some great conversations about understanding who we are in Christ, overcoming our fears, trusting God, surrendering our struggles and walking in obedience to God's will.

There's nothing like ministry!

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 13
Proverbs 15
Psalm 15
Genesis 13

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Socio-Economic Effects of Pornography

Ever wondered about the people who say they want to add pornography to help their sex-life?

All moral and religious arguments aside, there are many reasons why pornography can't help a marriage. In fact, there have been numerous research studies indicating exactly the opposite. Just talk with the pastors across our country who counsel parishioners whose marriages have been blown up due to pornography-induced problems such as addiction and infidelity.

The facts are overwhelmingly staggering when it comes to the harm pornography does socio-economically. Sociologists and psychologists have never been able to find any hard evidence that pornography helps marriage relationships. Instead research studies and case studies have found time and time again over the last 30 years that pornography harms individuals, marriages as well as communities. Take a look at this summary I collected over the last week that details the effects of pornography. After reading this, I hope anyone, regardless of religious beliefs, would seriously consider the destruction that pornography does.

CMA Meeting Today to Discuss Culpeper Porn Shop

The Culpeper Ministerial Association is meeting this morning. Included on the agenda is the proposal I will submit to the CMA in response to the opening of Unmentionables, a sexually-oriented business in Culpeper that sells lingerie and pornography.

As one staff editorial stated in this morning's Culpeper Star-Exponent, the store has received very little, if any, public opposition. However, the lack of public opposition doesn't mean that the opening of the store hasn't gone unnoticed or that the sale of pornography is welcomed in our community. Before action, there must be a time of prayer and consideration of God's will. The last few weeks have been a time of preparation.

The Body of Christ does care about the harm that accompanies pornography - the harm to an individual, marriages/families and the community at large - and the incredulity to these scientifically proven facts.

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 12
Proverbs 14
Psalm 14
Genesis 12

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Monday, January 18, 2010

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 11
Proverbs 13
Psalm 13
Genesis 11

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Friday, January 15, 2010

Pornography Store in Culpeper

Our local newspaper ran an article last week about a new store that opened in December: Unmentionables. This is a store that sells lingerie. Personally, I like the idea of a husband and wife spicing up their marriage with lingerie. I don't have a problem with this at all. This is also a store that sells pornography out of a "locked room." This is an issue.

At the next Culpeper Ministerial Association meeting, I've been asked to propose how the CMA should address the store's sale of pornography in our community. This is a store that's located in an industrial area behind the Target shopping center off of Montanus Drive. Also located within that same industrial area is New Life West Anointed Ministries (a local church pastored by Eugene Logan) and Fun-N-Beyond (a child entertainment center that provides parties in a moon bounce environment).

Concern is on several levels. The obvious concern is the Biblical view of pornography. Pornography is sin - plain and simple. Case closed. Culpeper is a community rooted in the Christian tradition, and the Body of Christ in this community will continue to strive to preserve its Christian heritage and being a city on a hill.

Another concern is the emotional and sociological effects pornography has on men, women and marriages. There is enough research evidence to demonstrate that pornography adversely effects how individuals view themselves sexually, how they view sexual relationships and how marriages can experience significant problems dealing with issues such as sexual and pornography addiction.

There are a great deal of conflicting articles published about the relationship between pornography and sexually-violent crimes. It's not so much that pornography will cause any person to commit a sexually-violent crime; however, in the overwhelming vast majority of sexually-violent crimes, pornography always played a role. The relationship is obvious.

Lastly, there is scientific evidence demonstrating the secondary effects of sexually oriented businesses on the community itself. There are not only great research studies that have been conducted, but also court cases that have cited the research indicating that there are serious problems associated with sexually oriented businesses. The evidence indicates that property values decrease substantially, crime increases in the immediate area surrounding the businesses and the potential for sexually violent crimes increase dramatically when near areas of places of worship and establishments targeting children. Notice I mentioned that Unmentionables is near both a church and a children's entertainment center.

Please pray for wisdom, direction and convicted hearts as we try and resolve this issue within our community. Please pray for the owners of this business. My goal is not to see their business closed, but that their hearts would be changed to see the serious impact of pornography in people's lives. I pray that they would simply stop selling pornography.

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 10
Proverbs 12
Psalm 12
Genesis 10

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Thursday, January 14, 2010

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 9
Proverbs 11
Psalm 11
Genesis 9

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Superbowl Commercial

Here's the Superbowl Commercial submitted by Los Angeles' Mosaic Church. It's in the top 6!


Be Like a Sheep

I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me. John 10:14 NIV

One of the interesting things about sheep is that they actually learn to recognize their shepherd's voice. Sheep will instinctively respond when they hear the shepherd's voice.

Wouldn't it be great to be like sheep!

During this 21-day fast, I pray each and every one of us is becoming more like sheep. I want to be able to hear God's voice and respond instinctively. I want to block out all of the distractions that keep me from hearing God's voice.

Father, may we experience a closeness to You that we've never experienced before. Honor our devotion and commitment to You. May we hear Your voice with clarity. Lord, speak to our hearts and minds in powerful ways, giving us direction and wisdom in all that we do. May we walk in obedience to Your will and experience life more abundant! In Jesus' name, Amen.

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 8
Proverbs 10
Psalm 10
Genesis 8

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 7
Proverbs 9
Psalm 9
Genesis 7

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Monday, January 11, 2010

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 6
Proverbs 8
Psalm 8
Genesis 6

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Saturday, January 9, 2010

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 5
Proverbs 7
Psalm 7
Genesis 5

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Friday, January 8, 2010

Thursday, January 7, 2010

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 4
Proverbs 6
Psalm 6
Genesis 4


2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

2010 Challenge

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 3
Proverbs 5
Psalm 5
Genesis 3


2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Monday, January 4, 2010

Wisdom

In our 2010 Challenge today, we had the opportunity to read Proverbs 4. This passage is focused on wisdom and the importance of it in our lives. Wisdom is the greatest ally we can have during our lifetime on this earth. With wisdom, we can find God and we can live the abundant life that is promised to us. Without wisdom, we're going to make bad decision after bad decision. We're going to hurt ourselves and many others along the way.

Proverbs 1:7 tells us that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge (ie, wisdom). It all begins with an authentic relationship with Christ. If we have that relationship with Christ, we can grow in our wisdom through learning about the Lord by reading and studying the Bible. The Bible has more wisdom in it than any other book ever written. Even if you only read the Proverbs, you'll gain more wisdom than any person who has never read the Bible.

Wisdom is also gained in our relationships with other mature believers. We need to open ourselves up to receive advice and counsel. Proverbs 15:22 reminds us of the necessity of this in our lives.
Plans go wrong for lack of advice; many counselors bring success. (NLT)

Proverbs 4 tells us wisdom can do so many good things for us:
-It can keep us alive (v. 4)
-It can protect us (v. 6)
-It will put us in a position to be exalted and honored (v. 8)
-It will give us a better understanding of grace (v. 9)
-It can give us a longer life (v. 10)
-It will help us to live with fewer mistakes (vv. 11-12)

We'd be foolish to reject wisdom with results like these!

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 2
Proverbs 4
Psalm 4
Genesis 2


2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Saturday, January 2, 2010

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

Proverbs 2
Psalm 2

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Friday, January 1, 2010

Awakening 2010


As part of our "2010 Challenge," City on a Hill Church is participating in Awakening. Awakening is a 21-day period of prayer and fasting. More than 300 churches all over the world are participating in this initiative.

At City on a Hill Church's website, we will provide every resource that a person would need for this time including fasting calendars, daily devotionals, articles on types of fasts, preparing for the fast and breaking the fast as well as recipes for those special meals for those who are doing a Daniel-type or juice fast.

Awakening isn't just for the adults. It's for our kids, too. Check out this video that will help you prepare your children's ministry:

Lisa Johnson Children's Ministry from Celebration Church on Vimeo.

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year everyone!

It was 2 years ago that God stirred so mightily in my life that He led me to Culpeper, VA from San Diego, CA. The Holy Spirit awakened a deeper awareness of Him and giftings in my life that I didn't even know I had. I pray that the Lord would do the same for each and every one of you reading this.

God has some pretty big plans for City on a Hill Church in 2010. I see a lot of change coming. Change isn't always bad. In fact, I'm excited about the change the Lord is bringing to our church body. He's going to add to it. He's going to bring us into a more fertile ground where fruit is born that we haven't ever harvested before. There's divine leading already taking place among our people.

My prayer for 2010 is simply this:
Lord, my your Holy Spirit lead us. May we be bold enough to follow You. May You grant us favor in all we do for your glory!

2010 Challenge

Today's 2010 Challenge comes from the Project 345 Plus Plan:

John 1
Proverbs 1
Psalm 1
Genesis 1

2010 Challenge: at least 20 days a month, at least 10 minutes a day alone with God

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Resolution or Revolution

With the new year comes all types of resolutions: lose weight, spend less time at work and more time with the family, do this, do that... And in most cases, new year's resolutions fall by the wayside by the end of the first month.

This year, let me encourage you to stop setting new year resolutions and begin setting new year revolutions. A revolution is something that changes your life. It's a revolt from what you have been doing and demands a change. It brings with it much more power than a mere resolution.

Revolt from spiritual laziness.
Revolt from the sin habits in your life.
Revolt from staying in your comfort zones.

The biggest difference between resolutions and revolutions is that resolutions only change you. Revolutions change the world around you! Be a world-changer in 2010!!

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

You Are Mine

But now thus says the Lord, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: "Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you. For I am the Lord you God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior." Isaiah 43:1-3a ESV

Did you know that you belong to God?

Many of us presume we're our own. But think of the implications of that. If we belong to no one but ourselves, then we're responsible for everything in our life. We're responsible for our jobs, our families, our finances. It's up to us, and only us, to make sure everything is fine and works out the way it's supposed to.

I, for one, am glad I'm not my own. When I read the passage above from Isaiah, I'm reminded that I belong to God. I'm His. That means He's ultimately responsible for me, my job, my family and everything about me. That doesn't absolve me of following Him and His will, but it allows me to rest in the absolute fact that He's watching over me, He's with me and He's protecting me.

When I approach life from the perspective that I belong to the Almighty God, it's so much easier to walk in faith that no matter what my circumstances are, He's my Savior.

Wild Goose Chase


This week @ COAHC, we're kicking off a 6-week series based on the book, Wild Goose Chase by Mark Batterson.

This series will passionately inspire us all to follow the Holy Spirit into an adventure-filled life. We will address the issues in life which keep us in bondage from experiencing all that God intends for us: the cages of responsibility, routine, assumptions, guilt, failure and fear.

Join us each Sunday @ 11am or listen online at our website.

Divine Intervention

The Culpeper Star-Exponent ran a story on Sunday morning about the progress of an effort to pray for our community. It's taken its twists and turns, but a few in the community have remained faithful to this vision. Read the article here.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Primal: Quest for the Lost Soul of Christianity

Last week, I mentioned that I was reading Mark Batterson's newest book entitled Primal: Quest for the Lost Soul of Christianity.

Batterson has hit another one out of the park with this latest release. The one thing I love about Batterson's style is that he doesn't leave you with any question about his passion for following Christ and the necessity for all of us to love our Lord with everything we are and everything we have.

Primal is a challenge to every reader to embark on a reforming journey of stripping down his faith to its most primitive element. This book leads us into a deeper level of loving God and walking in His presence. This is a must read for every Christian who is looking for something fresh, something new in his relationship with God.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

rebirth

I'm stoked about what God is getting ready to do! This is one of those things that I'm as confident about as when He first called us to Culpeper to plant City on a Hill Church.

Get ready young adults.... rebirth is coming!

Young people in college and in their 20's are leaving the Church in droves. Why? I believe they're leaving because the Church has failed them. The Church has failed to teach them how to truly love God with all of their heart, soul, mind and strength. When you don't love God with everything, it's too easy to turn away when doubt creeps in and hard times create a lot of hard questions.

COAHC is launching a new ministry to young adults who are out of high school and through their 20's / early 30's. This is an another opportunity to reach and teach young adults how to love God with everything they are. This is ... rebirth.

2010 Challenge

City on a Hill Church is going to launch a huge initiative to help everyone grow in their walk with Christ. With the coming new decade, we're going to issue the 20-10 challenge to our people. We're going to challenge everyone to invest 20 days per calendar month and at least 10 minutes of those days in their relationship with God.

Beginning January 1, I'll be utilizing this blog as a devotional blue print for each and every person to use as their source of time with God. Of course, I'll still update this blog for other purposes as well.

This is one way we can be audacious in our vision for becoming more and more like Christ: making a stronger commitment to spend time with Him!

Audacity

A couple of months ago I attended a conference for pastors and leaders in Charlotte, NC. At the conference, the Lord challenged me to be more audacious in my ministry and expectations. As I reflected on that challenge, I realized that our move to Culpeper from San Diego was audacious. Our faith in the launching of City on a Hill Church was audacious. Now that things are moving along nicely, however, our ministry could be characterized as "less than audacious."

What audacity can be seen in our ministry for the last few months? I'm not satisfied... I hunger and thirst for more of God's audacity in my life and in the life of COAHC.

Here are a few things I wrote down at that conference...

"Do I have the audacity to call out vision into reality?"

"Audacity is the difference between vision and daydreaming."

"Audacity allows people to see the vision when there's nothing there."

"Audacity requires God to step in and take over."

So, we've got some audacious things in store for 2010. Hold on COAHC... Hold on Culpeper...

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Primal: Quest for the Lost Soul of Christianity

I'm reading Mark Batterson's new book Primal: Quest for the Lost Soul of Christianity. Batterson is one of my spiritual mentors (even though he doesn't know I exist) as I've read his other two books and follow his blog daily.

Primal is a book that really helps every believer get back to the basics of Christianity. What are the basics? Jesus boiled everything down to "Love the Lord your God with all of your heart, all of your soul, all of your mind and all of your strength." As believers, we've got to go back to that place and time where God was the most real in our lives and when He was moving the most powerfully. It's a reformation of our souls.

The first section of the book deals with the heart - more specifically, compassion. Batterson challenges us to open our eyes to what breaks our heart. What breaks our heart because it breaks the heart of God? Once we realize it, do something about it. Become involved in the solution of the problem instead of just praying about it or hoping someone else does something.

I believe that God has created within each one of us the potential to accomplish miracles by the power of the Holy Spirit working through us. We simply need to be willing to take the first step in the uncertainties of darkness of not knowing all that God will do. Our faith is in the One who will use each and every one of us if we're willing to simply love Him with all of our hearts.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

The Rest of the Top Ten Lessons I've Learned

So here's the other top ten lessons I've learned in the last couple of years...

6 - What God starts, He finishes.
God initiated the call to Culpeper from San Diego. As crazy as it sounded, I was really excited because I knew it was the Lord. When we started City on a Hill Church, there were weekends when I wasn't sure if anyone would show up at all. In fact, there was one service when it was only my family and me - that's it, no one else. During those times, I doubted God's hand in COAHC. Even though it didn't feel like God was doing anything, He was doing something. He doesn't start something and then not finish it!

7 - Don't compare myself to others.
It would be easy to try and mimic others in order to succeed. We could fashion a logo that looks similar to a soft drink. We could acquire funds to build a family center. We could do all sorts of things trying to mimic other larger churches in order to draw a crowd. We'll never be Mountain View, Culpeper Baptist, New Spring, Elevation or any other church that's out there. We're City on a Hill Church, and I'm me - that's it! In order for God's will to be done in and through me, I've got to be me. I don't want to be the best Andy Stanley or Steve Furtick impersonator. I am simply the best GW Dameron anyone will ever be!

8 - Apathy kills any hope of accomplishing God's will.
In the last two years, I've seen more apathy and lukewarmness than I've ever cared to see. Too many people are content with mediocrity and settling for less than what God wants for them. Why? Because it's manageable. It's easier even though it's miserable. God hates apathy! It makes Him want to vomit according to Revelation 3:16. It cheapens grace, the most costly and extravegant gift God could ever give us. God was so passionate about His love for us, He died for us. Can we show just a little more passion people? Just a little?

9 - God's opinion is the most important opinion.
While judging your motives and methods, people will judge your level of success. It's based, however, on their own idea and concept of success, not God's. How many people are a part of COAHC? What kind of building do you have? How good's your worship? I've learned that the only measure of success is knowing God's opinion. God's opinion is the most important thing to me, because He's going to be the one saying to me on that day, "Well done, good and faithful servant." No one else's kuddos even come close. I know His opinion will be favorable as long as I'm staying close to Him, following and listening and obeying.

10 - It's okay to make mistakes. God doesn't expect me to be perfect.
So much of what we do at COAHC is an experiment. I don't mind when we try something and it fails. I don't pretend that I'm perfect. I've made, and will make, mistakes all the time. My decisions as a pastor aren't fool-proof. God hasn't called me or anyone else in leadership at COAHC to be perfect, only submissive to His will.

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

The Top 10 Lessons I've Learned

Since responding to God’s call to move across the country and plant City on a Hill Church, God has taught me some valuable lessons. I thought I’d share just a few of them with you. These aren’t necessarily brand new lessons for me. Some are simply reminders that God had to bring to the forefront of my mind again.

Below are five of the top ten lessons. I’ll post the other five tomorrow. Hopefully, the lessons I’ve learned the hard way will be lessons you can learn the easy way. Is there really an easy way to learn a lesson, though?

1 – Christian leadership isn’t for sissies.
I don’t mean to sound sexist when I say that because I believe women are called to leadership as well. I simply mean that you better pull your boot straps up when you assume a leadership position. Why? Other than the obvious challenges that come when leading a group of people, leaders become targets. The bigger impact you’re having for the Kingdom of God, the bigger the bulls eye is on your chest. You better be prepared for spiritual attacks from the enemy from every angle. And I mean, from every angle – angles you didn’t even know existed. Not only are you being attacked, but those around you (family, friends) are also being attacked because of you. At this very moment, my children are the target of attacks from Satan. Why? Because they're easier targets than I, and distraction is a great weapon. I’ve had to learn to really fight the spiritual battle. There’s nothing like praying for your family and friends in the wee hours of the morning.

2 – You can’t win ‘em all.
Jesus gave us the most important statistics lesson we’ll ever learn in the parable of the sower. He taught us that only 25% of the people who begin a relationship with God will grow to become who God wants them to be. That means that 75% will experience epic failure. Only 1 out of every 4 people will hear God’s voice and grow to maturity. This is a tough lesson to learn when you’ve invested yourself into someone who chooses to follow their flesh over Christ. It can be heart-breaking. I won’t ever stop trying to reach the world for Christ, though – even if my heart gets broken hundreds of more times.

3 – Don’t be distracted by all the chatter, and stay focused on God’s voice.
There will be people who will question your motive and your methods. It never fails. It’s easy to get caught up with trying to answer their questions. Soon, you’re so distracted that you’re hearing their voices instead of God’s voice inside your head. At some point, you’ve got to make a decision to stop listening to all of the chatter and get back to basics. Stay focused on the voice of the Lord.

4 – Don’t ever substitute the opinion of the “Experts” for God’s will.
The so-called “Experts” have all kinds of opinions about the methodology of church planting and church leading. These are great tools to use to equip you and prepare you for leadership. We can’t make the mistake in thinking there are only a certain number of ways to do what God’s calling you to do. If God calls you to something, He doesn’t sit back and say, “Okay, now go figure it out for yourself!” Of course not! He’s the kind of God who calls you to a task and then gives you the instructions on how to do it – if you’re willing to listen and follow those instructions.

There isn’t an expert out there who would have condoned the way we planted and launched City on a Hill Church. The bottom line, though, was it was how God wanted it done. Don’t ask me why. Maybe someday I’ll figure it all out. I just know that listening to God’s voice and following His instructions beats any book or conference that’s out there.

5 – Once someone’s mind is made up to leave a local church, there’s no changing it.
This is one of those lessons I learned a long time ago, but God brought it back to the front of the line. When someone has decided he/she’s going to leave your church, there’s nothing that the pastor or leadership can do to keep them. Nothing! All kinds of reasons can be offered, and those concerns can be discussed and assuaged. But it won’t matter. At that point, it’s more about pride than anything else. The person(s) who wants to leave could be given insurmountable evidence against their accusations. He’s still going to leave. I’ve been reminded that there are lots of people out there like that, unfortunately. My prayers and best wishes go with them.